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5 lessons to level up your self-confidence and your life.

  • Writer: Karey Welch,  Founder of Loveworld333 & Self-love Hype Girl
    Karey Welch, Founder of Loveworld333 & Self-love Hype Girl
  • Aug 25, 2023
  • 3 min read

Updated: Nov 24, 2023

Learning to love yourself and practicing strong boundaries shows you and the universe that you are ready to take your life to the next level. Here are 5 life lessons, that once I learned and applied them, my life and my self- confidence began to soar to new heights.


Start practicing these 5 tips and start to see your life transform. When you love yourself you glow from the inside and are a magnet for your desires.

I spent so many years struggling with self-limiting beliefs and really having a hard time with my self-esteem and self confidence. Until finally, I was exhausted with my own negative and critical thinking. I set out on a journey of self-discovery, healing and transformation. Through a myriad of healing modalities, spiritual practices, devouring thought leaders in law of attraction, law of assumption and self-concept work, I found my self-love.


When I started practicing putting myself first, and unconditionally loving me, my entire world and life transformed, and leveled-up. Here a few of the lessons that I learned along the way.


#1 - Put yourself on the pedestal

Your external world is a mirror reflecting back to you how you see you. When you know you're the prize, you are the Queen, then those around you will start treating you as such. This is a practice, so be patient while you start to implement these new beliefs. Practice affirming a positive self-concept, be consistent and watch your world transform. Repetition reinforces your story into your subconscious so start acting like you're the main character and you'll be treated as such.



#2 - Stop People Pleasing


People pleasing and overextending does nothing for your self-esteem but drain it. People pleasing can build up resentment and anger which can get energetically stuck in our bodies and hold us back. Learn to say "No", let it go and don't give it another thought. Your worth and value isn't tied into what you do for others. Overgiving and overextending can leave us struggling with self-esteem and can bring on burn out. And trust me, if someone isn't seeing your value, they certainly won't see it by you giving more of yourself.


"To reach a higher level of being, you must assume a higher concept of yourself." – Neville Goddard

#3 - Be mindful of the People Who you surround yourself with


Keep people in your circle who love, support and celebrate you and your wins. Be careful of those are carry negativity, envy and those who lower your energy. Trust your intuition, you know who lights you up and who drains you. Keeping a low vibe tribe will keep you stagnant. This is a difficult decision but sometimes we have to make hard decisions to let some people move on from our lives. You know the saying, some people are there for a reason, a season or a lifetime....


#4 - If people want to leave your life, Let them


Don't beg or chase for the bare minimum. If someone is showing you that they can't show up for you, let them go with love and blessings on their journey. You don't ever have to convince the right people to want to be in your life. The universe is trying to bring you something better but you have to create the space. And keep you self esteem in tact by prioritizing your feelings.


#5 - YoU are the creator of your own reality


Remember life is happening for you, not to you. The lessons are there to help you learn, grow and expand into new heights. Don't be a victim of your life, be the creator. Your thoughts and beliefs create your world. Keep affirming your positive self-concept and you'll start believing. It doesn't have to be perfect, just keep practicing.


I hope these lessons help you Level-up your self-Confidence and Remind you of your infinite Power.


If you need additional support tools to help you level-up your self-confidence and your life. Click below to download my FREE Empowering Mindset Resource Guide and visit my website to learn about my 1 on 1 coaching sessions.


XOXO,

All the Peace and Love





Life Stylist + Mindset Motivator






 
 
 

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